Category: Life after diagnosis

  • The Silent Warning Signs of Kidney Disease

    The Silent Warning Signs of Kidney Disease

    Stop scrolling for a second.

    Your kidneys might be whispering…

    and most people never hear them until it’s too late.

    Let’s talk about the signs people ignore.

    Because kidney disease is quiet at first.

    Early on, it may look like:

    Feeling tired all the time.

    Foamy urine.

    Swollen feet or face.

    Frequent urination, especially at night.

    Persistent headaches from high blood pressure.

    Loss of appetite.

    Nothing dramatic.

    Nothing that screams “emergency.”

    So many people brush it off.

    But as kidney function keeps dropping… the signs become louder.

    Later stages can look like:

    Severe swelling.

    Shortness of breath.

    Nausea and vomiting.

    Itching all over the body.

    Very little urine or no urine at all.

    Confusion or weakness.

    At this point, the kidneys are struggling badly.

    Now let’s break it down simply.

    Kidney disease has 5 stages.

    Stage 1–2:

    Kidneys are still working fairly well.

    Damage has started, but it can be managed.

    This is where lifestyle changes and proper medical care make a huge difference.

    Stage 3:

    Moderate damage.

    More monitoring.

    More discipline.

    Still manageable with close care.

    Stage 4:

    Severe damage.

    Preparation for possible dialysis or transplant begins.

    Stage 5:

    End-stage kidney failure.

    The kidneys can no longer support the body.

    Dialysis or a kidney transplant becomes necessary to survive.

    This is why early detection matters.

    Because stages 1–3?

    There is room to slow it down.

    To manage it.

    To protect what is left.

    But when it reaches stage 5… we are no longer preventing.

    We are replacing function.

    And please hear this clearly —

    If someone is already in kidney failure, taking random herbal concoctions can be dangerous.

    When the kidneys are weak, they cannot filter toxins properly.

    Some mixtures contain unknown substances, heavy metals, or high potassium levels that can worsen kidney damage.

    At that stage, “trying anything” can cost a life.

    Kidney disease is medical.

    It needs proper monitoring.

    Proper tests.

    Proper doctors.

    Awareness is not to scare you.

    It’s to protect you.

    Check early.

    Act early.

    Ask questions early.

    My name is Hilda Addo, and I’m your kidney disease advocate.

  • From Diagnosis to Determination

    From Diagnosis to Determination

    PART 1 — The Dreams I Started With

    Growing up, I had big dreams.

    Dreams so big I couldn’t imagine who I’d be if I didn’t reach them.

    So I studied hard. I planned carefully.

    I wanted to become someone I could look back on and say,

    “Well done, Dr Hilda. You made it.”

    But life had its own plans.

    “For I know the plans I have for you… plans to give you hope and a future.”

     Jeremiah 29:11

    While I was still in school, I had already pictured my life ahead, university, success, the future I had carefully imagined.

    What I didn’t know was that life doesn’t always ask for permission before it redirects you.

    One thing I’ve learned on this kidney journey is this: it can be silent.

    No loud warnings. No obvious signs.

    Sometimes the quiet things we ignore are the ones that change everything.

    One day, my mum came to visit me.

    She looked at me closely and asked,

    “Hilda, are you okay?”

    I laughed it off.

    Mum, I’m fine. I just want to finish school, move forward, and make you proud.

    But life was already whispering a different story.

    I didn’t feel sick.

    Nothing felt wrong.

    The only thing that seemed off, I brushed aside as “normal.”

    Until one weekend at home, when everything shifted.

    A hospital visit.

    Concerned looks.

    Doctors asking questions that suddenly felt heavy.

    I remember sitting quietly, waiting for my mum, watching unfamiliar preparations unfold, and realizing that this wasn’t just a routine check.

    Today, when people hear my story, they’re often surprised that I’m living with kidney failure.

    But my response is simple:

    With God, all things are possible.

    That moment marked the beginning of a journey I never imagined, one that reshaped my dreams, my strength, and my purpose.

    And trust me…

    what came next changed everything.

    To be continued……

    My name is Hilda Addo, and I’m your kidney disease advocate.

  • Support Looks Different After Diagnosis.

    Support Looks Different After Diagnosis.

    Life After Diagnosis – When Friends and Family Are Diagnosed Too.

    Here’s the part no one prepares you for:

    When you’re diagnosed, your friends and family are diagnosed too, just

    differently.

    Some show up beautifully.

    Some go quiet.

    Some don’t know what to say and say nothing at all.

    It can hurt.

    Not because they don’t care,

    but because they don’t know how to carry what you’re carrying.

    I’ve learned to give grace where I can

    and boundaries where I must.

    Illness has a way of revealing people

    not to shame them, but to show you who can walk this road with you.

    Life after diagnosis teaches you this truth fast: support doesn’t always look how you imagined it would.

    And that’s okay.

    You grow.

    They grow.

    And somewhere in between, as patience and understanding grow, acceptance begins to take root.

    My name is Hilda Addo, and I’m your kidney disease advocate.